When you were “born again,” you received a priceless gift from the Lord. It is a divine enablement through which He will fulfill His purposes for your life. Many conflicts in marriages, families, churches and businesses occur because we do not understand our own gift or the perspectives which other people bring to a given situation through their gift. Most of all, we must understand why we will misuse our gift if we try to exercise it with our mind or heart rather than with our reins. 120 Pages.